Melihat lebih jauh – a good read

Berawal dari blogwalking tentang Lomography, nyampe-nyampe ke blognya Dian Sastro, dan berujung pada liat tulisan di bawah dari blog ini.

Sangat inspiratif.

Tiba-tiba inget betapa dangkal dulu pikiran saya, yang emoh cari kerjaan yang ‘monoton’. Sama skali lupa, apa itu ‘pekerjaan’ secara literally. Lupa klo ‘pekerjaan’ itu bukan cuma teknis, tapi juga pake hati. Dan ya, saya belajar melihat lebih jauh, tentang sgala hal.

Berawal dari LOMO, nyampe2 ke tulisan ini. Inspirasi memang kadang datang tak diundang dan tiba-tiba. hehe..

Melihat lebih jauh

oleh: Herry Tjahjono

Ada dua kisah nyata inspiratif yang akan saya adaptasi. Pertama tentang seorang tukang pipa (plumber). Alkisah, bos perusahaan otomotif terbesar di Jerman sedang pusing karena pipa keran airnya bocor, ia takut anaknya yang masih kecil terjatuh. Setelah bertanya ke sana-kemari, ditemukan seorang tukang terbaik. Melalui pembicaraan telepon, sang tukang menjanjikan dua hari lagi untuk memperbaiki pipa keran sang bos. Esoknya, sang tukang justru menelepon sang bos dan mengucapkan terima kasih. Sang bos sedikit bingung. Sang tukang menjelaskan, ia berterima kasih sebab sang bos telah mau memakai jasanya dan bersedia menunggunya sehari lagi. Pada hari yang ditentukan, sang tukang bekerja dan bereslah tugasnya, lalu menerima upah. Dua minggu kemudian, sang tukang kembali menelepon sang bos dan menanyakan apakah keran pipa airnya beres. Namun, ia juga kembali mengucapkan terima kasih atas kesediaan sang bos memakai jasanya. Sebagai catatan, sang tukang tidak tahu bahwa kliennya itu adalah bos perusahaan otomotif terbesar di Jerman. Cerita belum tamat. Sang bos demikian terkesan dengan sang tukang dan akhirnya merekrutnya. Tukang itu bernama Christopher L Jr dan kini menjabat GM Customer Satisfaction & Public Relation Mercedes Benz. Dalam sebuah wawancara, Christopher menjawab, ia melakukan semua itu bukan sekadar tuntutan after sales service atas jasanya sebagai plumber. Jauh lebih penting, ia selalu yakin tugas utamanya bukanlah memperbaiki pipa bocor, tetapi keselamatan dan kenyamanan orang yang memakai jasanya. Christopher melihat lebih jauh dari tugasnya.

Kisah lain. Ada juga kisah dari teman saya, James Gwee, tentang Mr Lim yang sudah tua dan bekerja ”hanya” sebagai door checker (memeriksa engsel pintu kamar hotel) di sebuah hotel berbintang lima di Singapura. Puluhan tahun ia jalankan pekerjaan membosankan itu dengan sungguh- sungguh, tekun, dan sebaik-baiknya. Ketika ditanya apakah ia tak bosan dengan pekerjaan menjemukan itu, Mr Lim mengatakan, yang bertanya adalah orang yang tidak mengerti tugasnya. Bagi Mr Lim, tugas utamanya bukanlah memeriksa engsel pintu, tetapi memastikan keselamatan dan menjaga nyawa para tamu. Dijelaskan, mayoritas tamu hotelnya adalah manajer senior dan top manajemen. Jika terjadi kebakaran dan ada engsel pintu yang macet, nyawa seorang manajer senior taruhannya. Jika ia meninggal, sebagai decision maker, perusahaannya akan menderita. Jika perusahaannya menderita dan misalnya bangkrut, sekian ribu karyawannya akan menderita. Belum lagi keluarganya, termasuk anak istri manajer itu.

Demikian jauh pandangan Mr Lim, dan ia bukan sekadar door checker. Beberapa pelajaran Christopher L Jr dan Mr Lim relatif manusia sejenis. Keduanya bukan kelas manusia sedang atau biasa (good people). Mereka jenis ”manusia besar atau manusia berlebih” (great people) meski jabatan atau pekerjaan formal di suatu saat demikian ”rendah dan biasa saja”. Sikap mental mereka jauh lebih tinggi dari jabatan dan pekerjaan formalnya.

Dua kisah itu memberikan beberapa pelajaran berharga. Pertama, untuk menjadi manusia besar tidak semata-mata ditentukan oleh kemampuan teknis seseorang mengerjakan tugasnya. Kemampuan dan kompetensi teknis (hard competence) boleh sama atau biasa saja, tetapi sikap mental atau soft competence yang lebih akan menentukan seseorang menjadi manusia besar atau tidak. Kedua, untuk bisa mempunyai soft competence dimaksud, kita perlu berontak dan bangun dari tidur panjang selama ini, keluar dari zona nyaman good. Sebagai manusia minimalis, pekerja atau pemimpin apa adanya (yang penting job description dijalankan), target kerja atau key performance indicator (KPI) tercapai, beres! Itulah tipikal manusia biasa saja. Upaya ini memerlukan pengorbanan diri sebab hanya dengan menjadi good people seperti selama ini saja, toh tak ada yang mengusik kita, tetap bisa bekerja dengan nyaman, dan seterusnya. Maka, pemberontakan untuk bebas dari kondisi good people itu harus dari diri sendiri dulu. Ingat petuah Jim Collins, good is the enemy of great. Ketiga, langkah lebih konkret selanjutnya adalah sikap mental untuk ”melihat lebih”! Christopher L Jr plumber yang ingin memastikan kliennya nyaman dan selamat. Mr Lim door checker yang ingin menjamin tamu hotelnya terjaga nyawanya dari bahaya kebakaran. Melihat lebih jauh, beyond the job! Keempat, setelah mampu melihat lebih, barulah kita mampu ”memberi lebih” (giving more). Hanya dengan melihat lebih dan memberi lebih, kita mampu menjadi manusia besar yang tidak hanya bekerja sebatas KPI. Kita akan mampu bekerja dengan memberikan key values indicator (KVI), nilai-nilai lebih, mulia, unggul, berguna bagi setiap pengguna atau penikmat hasil kerja kita. Itulah Christopher L Jr dan Mr Lim. Rindu pemimpin besar Betapa bangsa ini rindu seorang pemimpin hasil pemilu yang layak disebut pemimpin besar, great leader. Mereka yang kini sedang giat berkompetisi dan perang iklan dengan saling sorot KPI masing-masing. Perhatikan dengan saksama, maka segenap janji kampanye, termasuk realisasinya, konteksnya masih sebatas pemenuhan KPI. Ini berlaku baik bagi yang masih berkuasa maupun mantan dan juga calon yang baru. Semua bicara tentang KPI kepemimpinan, belum menyentuh KVI kepemimpinan. Para pemimpin dan bahkan kita semua demikian bangga dan terpesona sendiri saat mampu memenuhi ”KPI kehidupan” kita masing-masing, yang biasanya memang bersifat kuantitatif, materiil, dan mudah diukur. Padahal, untuk menjadi great people, great leader, great father, great manager, dan seterusnya, lebih diperlukan kemampuan mempersembahkan ”KVI kehidupan” kita, yang biasanya justru tidak mudah diukur. Bangsa ini sangat memerlukan Christoper L Jr dan Mr Lim sebanyak mungkin dan sesegera mungkin. Sebagai catatan akhir, seorang office boy yang mampu mempersembahkan KVI nilainya tak kalah dengan seorang CEO yang hanya memberikan KPI-nya. Jika kita ”mau” melihat lebih jauh, kita akan ”mampu” melangkah lebih jauh.

Herry Tjahjono

Corporate Culture Therapist & President The XO Way, Jakarta

P.S: saya juga punya tulisan menarik yang berhubungan dengan artikel ini di http://yalun.wordpress.com/2009/04/26/melihat-lebih-dalam-fenomena-susan-boyle/

Sumber : http://yalun.wordpress.com/2009/02/14/melihat-lebih-jauh/

and she asked…”Why do Moslems fast during months of Ramadhan?”

Just yesterday, I have had conversation with my host family here, in Germany (and of course we did it in German, and it’s still still hard for me ). She knows already what I do, I’m going to do, and I don’t as a moslem. I do pray daily, I do fast during months of Ramadhan, I don’t eat pork, I don’t drink any Alcohol, etc. She also told me that she’s only “a bit” Catholic. Hehe… and we’re just laughing at it. Well yeah, I think I’m not a really good moslem tho. But I’m still learning to be a better one. On next August, all the moslem in the world will do fast. Then she started to ask me, why do moslem fast? Woow..!!!

I know It’s such a simple question, at least I already have had many exams and lectures related to this kind of question. But still, Hard to answer.

1. I had to explain it with my third language (which is HARD, hahaha).

2. Ok, or maybe I could have just explain it in English (I didn’t try this one, why? it might because whom I was talking to is a German, or maybe I myself didn’t want to or I couldn’t or maybe I just forgot there’s still a second language that is exist)

As a result, what I explained to her yesterday was :

- It’s because fasting is good for our health.

- We could feel what arm people do, (less daily food)

and… THAT WAS ALL.

Hahaha..

and she said, “sehr spannend” , interesting!!!

But still, I was so full of regret. I should have had better explaination .

while surfing and questioning about the other reasons, I found this from here.

This is a common but interesting question which a child may ask his/her parents. Non-Muslim may also pose it to a Muslim. Here are some possible reasons why Muslims observe a marathon one-month fast during Ramadan.

(a) To obey Allah’s injunction

Fundamental to a Muslim’s faith (or belief) are six articles: (i) belief in Allah, (ii) belief in Angels, (iii) belief in divine Books of Allah, (iv) belief in all Prophets, (v) belief in the Day of Judgement, and (vi) belief in Predestination. Articles (i) and (iii) demand that a Muslim must believe in, obey and implement, all the words of Allah contained in the Holy Qur’an. This is because …His (Allah) word is the truth…” (6:73) and ::the truth is from your Lord, so be not at all in doubt” (2:147) and “…whose word can be truer than Allah?” (Qur’an). Thematically, Qur’an contains injunctions for mankind, allegories, stories of past events, accounts of future events, and a lot of lessons especially for Muslims. Of importance the injunctions are sometime directed to all creatures (men and jinns), or sometime to specific gender (men or women), or sometime to specific tribes (eg “Bani Israel”), or sometime to the progeny of Adam (i.e mankind), or sometime to Ahl-ul kitaab (the people of the book), or sometime to Muslims (i.e those who believe in One Allah) etc. In most cases, the injunctions of Allah to Muslims can be regarded as blessing and mercy and when fully obeyed often lead them to His straight path. Without mincing words, there is no compromise with Allah’s injunctions: every sincere and God-fearing Muslim must obey them; this is a necessary precondition for being a Muslim. One of His injunctions, directed to Muslims (men and women), is:

“O you who believe, fasting is prescribed for you…”(2:183)

The phrase “O you who believe” is referring to: (i) those who submit to Allah’s wills and commands, (ii) those who believe in the six articles of faith, (iii) those who testify that “La ilaha illa llaha Muhammadu-r Rasululla”, (iv) those who practise the five pillars of Islam, and (v) those who implement and obey Allah’s injunctions in the Qur’an and follow the sunnah of His Prophet, Muhammad (s.a.w). No followers of any religions satisfy these criteria of “O you who believe” except the Muslims. It is they (Muslims) that Allah is directing His injunction in 2:183 to. The injunction prescribed fasting as a compulsory duty for them thus:

“…fasting is prescribed for you (Muslims)…” (2:183)

and

“…whoever witnesses the month of Ramadan should fast through it…” (2:185)

Clearly, Ramadan fast is a divine injunction mandatory for all able-bodied Muslims who are free from compelling excuses. Whoever deliberately forgoes fasting in Ramadan, should know that (s)he has disobeyed Allah’s injunction and no amount of fasting thereafter can give her/him a reward equivalent to one misssed Ramadan fast as obvious in this hadeeth:

Abu Huraira reported that the Prophet(s.a.w) said: “whoever did not fast one day of Ramadan without a genuine excuse or a disease then even if he fasted for a complete year, it would not compensate for that (missed Ramadan) day”

(Sahih al-Bukhari, vol 3,p.88)

(ii) To practice the tradition, and way of the pious people.

Fasting is not new to Islam; it is, indeed, as old as Adam(a.s) who was the first creature and the first Muslim to submit to one Allah. No one knows precisely when fasting began among Adam’s progenies but it is the practice of all the Prophets of Allah and their followers. Qur’an mentions that Musa(a.s) fasted for 40 days (see 2:51) (this is what the Jews termed “Jewish Passover”) and the Prophet(s.a.w) told us that Dawud(a.s) used to fast for half of the year (this involves fasting on every alternate day). ‘Issa (a.s) (or Jesus) was also reported to have fasted for 40 days (this is what the christians termed “the Lent”, usually observed before Easter festival). Since these Prophets were Muslims, it can be seen that by asking Muslims to fast, Allah intends to draw their attention to the practice and tradition of those pious predecessors who attained piety (in His sight) through fasting.

“O ye who believe, fasting is prescribed for you as it was prescribed for people before you …”(2:183)

This verse shows that fasting was observed by the people (i.e “ahl-ul kitaab”) who came to the scene before the Muslims and so it is a “sunnat Allah” (i.e a tradition approved by Allah) for those who lived aforetime and for the Muslims who are now the best generation ever raised for mankind (3:110). Qur’an says:

“(As for) the sunnat Allah (approved) for those who lived aforetime, no change will you find in (such) sunnat-Allah” (33:43)

Therefore, Ramadan fast should be seen as a propagation of the tradition approved by Allah for all those who submit to Him.

(iii) To learn how to attain piety

By the very nature of human beings, they are susceptible to sins and transgression of Allah’s limits. This may be due to their ignorance, worldly struggle for ephemeral and tantalizing things, or satan’s handiwork. In particular, Muslims are warned against gossiping, backbiting, slandering, hypocrisying, lying, cheating, duping, hatring, nursing grudge, keeping malice, fornicating as these vices negate the teachings of the Holy Qur’an. But since Muslims are like any human beings created to err as a result of forgetfulness, they need to be reminded and coached against any social vices from time to time. This will requires a fixed trainning period where Muslims will know and learn how to put an end to vices, learn virtues and get nearer to Allah. That trainning period is chosen by Allah to be the Ramadan fast which occurs once in every year. During Ramadan:

(a) compulsory five daily salaat are observed regularly and timely (this is to remind and train the mindless Muslims that salaat is an all-time duty for them);
(b) Zakat-ul fitr is paid on or before the ‘idl Fitr (the festival that commemorates the end of Ramadan fast) (Zakat-ul fitr is to teach Muslims to do sadaqah and to remind them that after zakat-ul fitr they should not forget to pay on time their annual divine obligatory Zakaat, the fourth pillar of Islam);
(c) Tarawih and Tahajjud prayers are observed in the evening and night of Ramadan (this is to teach Muslims to observe nawafil (i.e additional) prayers after Ramadan so as to increasetheir iman and get their supplications to Allah accepted promptly);
(d) Doubtful hobby such as smoking is stopped (this is to train Muslims to be frugal as Allah hates extravagancy and to save themselves from diseases such as Tuberclosis, Cancer, and heart attack known to be associated with smoking and premature death);
(e) pornographic videos/pictures are avoided and kept away (this is to free Muslims’ hearts and eyes from corruption and from shaitan’s whisperings to do evil deeds);
(f) Excessive intake of food is avoided (this regulates the stomach from being pot-bellied and distinguishes Muslims from kaafir whom Qur’an describes as those who eat like cattle (47:12)); etc. All these good things which Ramadan fast teaches Muslims are the means to attain piety. This is why the verse on Ramadan fast says:

“O ye who believe, fasting is prescribed for you…so that you will (learn how to attain) piety” (2:183)

(iv) To reap the full reward of the Night of Power (Lailat-ut Qadr)

The last book of Allah to His creatures, Al-Qur’an, was revealed in the night of Ramadan. What this means is that the first divine revelation to Prophet Muhammad(s.a.w) took place in the Night of Ramadan. Allah chose the night because of the special blessings in it. It is called the night of Power (Lailat-ut Qadr) or the night of blessing (Lailat-ul mubarak). The deed in this night is better than the rewards of deeds of 1,000 months (about 83.3 years). Let suppose that a man survived up to 100 years and he consciously witnessed 93 nights of Power, he would have in his account more than 7,750 rewards which exclude all other rewards he earned from doing virtuous deeds. It is this night that all Muslims are invited by Allah to look for in the month of Ramadan. Specifically, the night is in the last ten days of Ramadan and usually in one of the odd days (i.e. 21, 23, 25, 27 and 29th). A Muslim is expected to perform naafilah, recite the Qur’an, do zikr etc in the night. Since no one knows precisely which of the odd days is the night, Muslims are expected to be in seclusion (itikaf) during the last 10 days of Ramadan and the best place to do so is in the mosque.

It should be mentioned that the Angels descend in succession during the night of Power and they go round with special greeting of “peace” till day break when they will move back to their position. The number of these angels is uncountable and they descend with special command of Allah. The following chapter of the Qur’an details the event of the night of Power thus:

“Indeed We have revealed it (Qur’an) in the night of Power. And what will explain to you what the night of Power is? The night of Power is better than a thousand months. Therein descends the Angels and the Spirit by Allah’s permission, on every errand: (they say) Peace” (continuously) till the rise of Morning!” (97:1-5)

Who will like to miss the Night after reading this description? It is this very reason that every Muslim wants to witness and reap its full blessing by fasting during the days of the month of Ramadan. As Ramadan fast is inextricably tied to the Night of Power (see 2:183) it follows that any Muslim who wishes to benefit from the Night of Power must fast during the month of Ramadan. Qur’an says:

“Ramadan is the (month) in which Qur’an was sent down, as a guide to mankind, and a clear guidance and judgement (so that mankind will distinguish right from wrong). Whoever among you witnesses the month of Ramadan should fast through it…” (2:183)

(v) To show to Muslims how to get their past sins forgiven

Islam is a religion that stresses equality: both the poor and the rich (men or women) are equal as slaves in the sight of Allah. In Islam the surest way to obtain Allah’s forgiveness for one’s past sins is Pilgrimage (the fifth pillar of Islam) which unfortunately is easy for the rich to afford the cost of the journey. The All-wise, Allah, did not put the poor Muslims in limbo, rather He made fasting during Ramadan as a means of placing the poor and the rich on equal footing in terms of asking for forgiveness for their past sins. If a Muslim has no means of going for hajj, there should be a way to compensate him/her. The All-wise has chosen Ramadan for all Muslims to get their past sins forgiven as evident in this hadith:

Narrated Abu Huraira(r.a): The Prophet said:”… whoever fasts during Ramadan with sincere faith and hoping for his reward from Allah will have his past sins forgiven”

(Sahih Al-Bukhari, vol.3 p.70).

Therefore, Ramadan fast unites Muslims and bring them together as equal slaves who can be forgiven of their past sins devoid of discrimination in the sight of Allah.

(vi) To show that Fasting is the epitome of the five pillars of Islam

Islam is built upon five pillars. The third pillar is siyam (i.e fasting during Ramadan). The wisdom behind its third position is because it is a fulcrom upon which the other four pillars (Tawheed, and salaat are in first and second positions while zakat and Hajj are in the fourth and fifth positions) are balanced. It is the only pillar that encompases all the four other pillars in the sense that:

(a) before one observes fast, s(he) must be a Muslim, sane, matured, and free from excuses (such as menstruation, illness, travelling long-distances, child-birth bleeding, etc). And since a Muslim is required to proclaim Shahada (i.e Tawheed, the first pillar of Islam), fasting is directly tied to shahada. (b) Salaat is the second pillar of Islam that delineates a Muslim from one who is not; this means that a Muslim must observe salaat regularly to become a true Muslim. It follows that fasting during Ramadan without regular salaat is like using a spoon to fill a porous basket with water. (c) Zakat (the compulsory divine tax) is aimed to redistribute the Muslims’ wealth so that the gap between the rich and the poor is bridged to a certain extent. In Ramadan, every fasting Muslim, who is free from insanity, bondage etc, must pay Zakat-ul fitr on or before the ‘Idl Fitr day. Zakaat-ul fitr is in some sense a low-profile zakat, though aimed to achieve similar result, is completely different from zakat. Hajj is a duty which Muslims owe to Allah and it is to help the pilgrims to get their past sins forgiven. Coincidently, fasting during Ramadan has the same result. From the foregoing, it can be concluded that fasting is an epitome of the pillars of Islam. Therefore, every able-bodied Muslim must fast to learn how the other four pillars operate.

Conclusion

This article has discussed some reasons why Muslims do Ramadan fast. It is not intended to delve into the subject of fasting but to help Muslims answer often repeated question: “why do Muslims fast during the month of Ramadan?.”

May Allah give us His support in this world and in the hereafter and give us strength and good health to be able to fast during the month of Ramadan.

A Shamans View on Creation

A Shamans View on Creation

Many, many light years ago, he traveled the universe enjoying all that he had created. He found beauty in everything and felt love in all that existed. Yet something was missing and then he saw her in a dream. She was so exquisite and so delicate. She exuded energy, and healed all that she held. Her colors were like none he had ever seen. Her passion was so deep and alluring he knew he had to have her in his life.

For the next seven days he works on his masterpiece duplicating what he saw in his dream. Every detail sprang forth from his fingertips as if it were a part of him. When she was finished he knew he had only to breathe life into her and she would be his forever. Sitting there he pulled all his energy to the center of his being, he went deep inside himself to his core and unlocked his heart. He opened it and poured forth his love, covering her and letting it seep deep into her being.

She opened her eyes and he knew from that day forward he would never be the same. Life sprang from her very being, pure clean liquid poured out from deep, deep inside her womb. He reach down and took her hand and in a second he knew they would have many, many children together.

Their children came forward, each one of them so different and so unique they taught their mother and father to appreciate the little things in life. Laughter filled the air as they played in the paradise their father had created. His guidance and compassion made them strong. Their mother’s love fed them and kept them from harm. They went forth and multiplied spreading their mother and fathers love to all their children, teaching them the ways of the oldest ones.

The golden rules they abided by were simple.

Show respect for anything older than you, show compassion for anyone who has less than you, leave all that you touch clean and pure, put in as much as you take out, keep the door to your heart unlocked, and always remember who brought you into this world.

Living by these simple rules seemed so easy and left everyone who followed them happy and content. Yet somehow as time went on some people began to ignore these basic rules. The distance they created from their mother and fathers original intent created a distance inside them. The further away they got the unhappier they became. The unhappier they became the angrier they grew. Soon they were fighting amongst themselves blaming each other for their unhappiness. They began abusing their mother, showing no respect for anything older than themselves, they had no compassion, locked their hearts away, poisoning all that they touched, taking so much more than they put in and forgetting who had brought them into this world.

Their mother and father stood by and watch with sadness in their eyes as their children ran adrift. The children, feeling like lost souls were unsure of what to do so they got down on their knees and prayed.

“Heavenly Father forgive us for what we have done, in our ignorance we have abused our Mother Earth and in doing so have abused our self’s and the home you have made for us. Please tell us what we must do to make it right.” From the heavens boomed a voice loud and clear “It is simple, just follow the golden rules and the rest will take care of itself.”

“Show respect for anything older than you, show compassion for anyone who has less than you, leave all that you touch clean and pure, put in as much as you take out, keep the door to your heart unlocked, and always remember who brought you into this world.”

source : here